Where does your commitment lie in relationships

When I say I’m in a committed relationship, what I mean is I’m committed to stay even when I am triggered, when my wounds are activated, when it is hard to see the essence of my partner, his divinity, his heart, his purity. When it is hard to fall in love through him.⁣..
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My commitment is to hold myself in that trigger and pierce through the layers of conditioning in the way of me experiencing myself and others as love.⁣
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Commitment in this context is not an imprisonment or restriction. It is dedication to evolution and to soul emergence. It is commitment to life, love and truth, which are really all the same.⁣
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I need commitment from myself and people I relate with to trust that the container will be held for the time it takes for the deep alchemical process of lead (wounds, triggers) turning into gold (wholeness and integration) to be completed. ⁣
Commitment in relationships does not mean that we are suddenly responsible for each other’s wounds or that we do the work for each other. It means we are individually committed to do our work of growing up and we choose to do it together. ⁣
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It means we understand the delicate nature of bringing our divine nature into embodiment and we are willing to support each other in this journey. ⁣

How about you? What does it mean to be in a committed relationship to you?